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What a good ad looks like
A strong ad from a man is not hard to spot. He sounds like a person rather than a template. He tells you a little about himself, says plainly what he is hoping for, and leaves room for you to decide. A touch of wit goes a long way, especially the dry Irish kind that never tries too hard.
Scroll through the current man looking for woman ads and you will notice the difference quickly. The ones worth your time are rarely the loudest.
Writing yours, if you are a man
Ads that get replies tend to follow the same quiet recipe. Here is what works:
- Be honest about who you are and what you want
- Be respectful, even in the saucy bits
- Add one line that makes her smile
- Include a real photo of yourself
- Say clearly whether you want a chat, a date or something more physical
That last point matters more than men think. Women are not put off by directness, they are put off by vagueness and by pressure. When you are ready, post your own ad and give it a proper few minutes of thought.
Reading between the lines
As a reader, you are allowed to be picky. Notice how he talks about women. Notice whether he asks questions or only makes demands. A man who writes about mutual enjoyment, patience and consent is usually a man who behaves that way too.
If you want a lighter, no-pressure start, pair your browsing with the casual sex ads, where plenty of men are upfront about wanting something relaxed and uncomplicated.
Staying in control
You set the terms. Reply when you feel like it, ask for more photos or a quick chat before anything else, and say no without apologising. Good men respect that without a fuss, and the rest quietly disappear.
Prefer the other perspective? The ads from women looking for men are just a click away, and you can always check the city listings to see who is posting near you.
Frequently asked questions
Do men have to pay to post an ad? No. Posting on NaughtyIrish is free, and so is browsing.
How do I know a man is genuine? Look for a clear, personal ad and a real photo, and chat for a while before meeting. Trust your gut if anything feels off.
Can I stay anonymous? You choose what to share. Many women reply without giving out personal details until they feel comfortable.
What if a man is pushy? Stop replying. Respect and consent are expected here, and pushy behaviour is a good reason to walk away.