Men Looking for Men Ireland (0)

Three kinds of reader, one page

Out and proud, married and careful, or newly curious: you will find all of them in these listings. Some ads are playful and flirty. Some are blunt about desire. Others sound a little nervous, which is its own kind of charming, and a reminder to be kind.

If you are looking for men who are openly gay, start with the gay men ads. If you are drawn to men who are happy with both, the bi men section is full of variety.

Curiosity is a perfectly good starting point

Nobody has to arrive with a label. Plenty of men here are simply curious and want to talk to someone who will not laugh or rush them. Say so in your ad. Honest curiosity attracts patient, decent men, and patience is the whole secret to a good first meeting.

Take it slowly. Chat first, agree what you both want, and only then think about meeting. There is no prize for hurrying.

Keeping it discreet

Plenty of men need privacy and that is respected. A few simple habits help:

• Share only what you are comfortable with
• Use a photo that does not show your face if you prefer
• Agree in advance what is private and what is not
• Never share anyone else's details or pictures
• Leave when something feels wrong

Respect goes both ways. If someone asks you to keep things quiet, do exactly that. A man who can be trusted is a man others want to see again.

Writing an ad that gets answers

Short and specific wins. Tell readers what you enjoy, what you are looking for, and roughly what sort of man you would like to hear from. A little humour helps. So does a clear sentence about boundaries.

Ready to try? Post an ad in minutes, free of charge. You can also take a look at the casual sex ads if you prefer something relaxed and no-strings, or browse by city to see who is around.

Frequently asked questions

Is NaughtyIrish discreet for gay and bi men? You control what you share, and many members keep their details private. Never post anything you would not want known.

Can I post if I am only curious? Yes. Plenty of men write ads simply to chat and explore. Be honest and respectful.

Is it free? Browsing and posting ads are both free.

How do I stay safe meeting someone new? Talk first, share a plan with a friend you trust, and meet somewhere you feel comfortable. Leave if anything feels wrong.